4.30.2008
impending doom
4.24.2008
Korean Baby Singing Hey Jude
If you don't enjoy this you have issues! Oh my!!! I want my babies to be this cute!!!
the day he came home
Periodically throughout the year Derek lives on a submarine. There is no way of calling him, no way or hearing his voice for months at a time. Our only contact is email, and that's sporatic at best. All that is said so that you can understand the pure excitement and joy when I see this:





4.21.2008
My First Ball :)

Our friend Jill said she takes awesome pictures! :)
(minus the red eye, it was the best of the night!)
Our friends Eric and Kristy
Tom and Emily Buckles
Captain and Mrs. Isom









The morning after
I'm trying to show off my cute shirt but you cant really see it! :)
Over all my first ball went well. My friend Pam did my hair and did a great job! I had curls and for the first time ever, they didn't fall out! The food was great! The drunk men all around were disgustingly hilarious! The company was wonderful. And really, it was awesome to be able to toast our comander and chief together. You don't see much respect for him anymore! :) So yeah, this will likely be the only ball I ever attend...but I will say, it was one experience I won't forget for a while! :)
4.16.2008
my superhero husband


4.14.2008
Visitors from afar
Yesterday after church Derek and I were wasting time in Brunswick waiting for the evening service when I received a call from my Aunt Barbara. She tried to be sneaky and figure out where we were, but since we were 45 minutes away she had to fess up and let me know that they were in Saint Marys for a surprise visit! I can honestly say that I haven't been THAT excited in a long time! It was a short visit, but so refreshing! Derek and I had just been talking the night before about how much I was missing family in general, so it was a complete God visit! They brought their camper and stayed a Crooked Creek State Park which is GORGEOUS! Last night Derek and I spent several hours out their with them grilling steaks and looking at pictures. It really may not seem like much in just reading this, but it was quite possibly the most amazing surprise I've ever had.
If there was one thing I hope was acheived in the short visit though, I hope that Derek and I were able to encourage them. They have been through so much in the past and just get so discouraged, so I hope that the trip was as refreshing and encouraging as it was for us!
I love family and surprises, so this makes the past weekend the best I've had in a while! :)
4.09.2008
Here we go again!
I'm excited about my new physical therapist also. Not only does she seem to be incredibly knowledgable, she's a christian who's husband just got transferred down here. He is an officer on the Georgia, which is a sub that just recently got moved back down here. While he is out to sea she's looking for a church to go to, and I took the opportunity to invite her to my small group. It's been such a HUGE help to me in my new life and I hope that maybe we can be a help to Bre in the days to come!
Oh yeah, and since I don't think I've mentioned it, we're going to a ball next weekend! Thanks to my friend Jill who GAVE me an amazing dress I don't have to fork out a ton of money! I'm so excited about getting all dolled up and going out for an incredible night! I promise to post pictures eventually! :)
4.03.2008
Everyone else is doing it!
Today, just in case I don't blog tomorrow, is one day before my eight month anniversary! No, we don't celebrate monthly! Don't worry! Its hard to believe that its been eight months already! All Derek and I have heard is how hard the first year or marriage is, and now that we're on the second half of our first year, I can now share my opinion.
To understand parts of my opinion you should also see a letter that my sister blogged for me just before I got married. Rita has very strong, but very good opinions in most situations, and though I haven't always appreciated them, I'm growing more and more to look up to her. The part that I want you to really see in that letter is this:
Communicate, communicate, communicate. They say the first year is hardest. Near the end of the first year, you begin to hear that the second is hardest. And, as I enter my fourth, The Experts are promising that the hard years stop coming after five … or maybe seven.Honestly, we haven’t had “a hard year”. We have difficult weeks, bad days, tough spells. But we talk it out, work it out together, and are better for the communication it takes to work those issues out. And, to be truthful, if “the hard years stop coming” means that you learn to tolerate one another while you each do your own thing and merely coexist, personally I’d rather have bad times.
Now, my opinion. Much like Rita and Kyle, this hasn't been a hard YEAR for Derek and I. We've had our fights, our misunderstandings, and our disagreements, but they pass quickly. Sometimes it bugs me how quickly they pass because being the female that I am, I want to stay mad for a while. If you haven't met Derek you may not understand, but if you have, then you know how impossible it is to stay mad at him! Disagreements included, the past 8 months have been the most amazing months of my life!
Just after Derek and I were engaged, I remember talking to my best friend Rachel and telling her that there is no one else in this world that I trusted enough to allow him to take me away from living close to my family, only Derek. On August 4th, 2007 my life changed, completely. I was no longer a single woman living in South Carolina, only taking care of myself. I was a wife of a Submarine officer, living in Georgia, 3 hours away from everything familiar. And sitting here, 8 months later, I can honestly tell you, I'm right where God want me to be, without a doubt! I miss my family on a daily basis, but I feel closer to some of them than ever!
I am completely amazed knowing where I've come from and where I am. It makes me excited for the future and where I'm going! Life is exciting! And now you get to read about it!! How excited does that make you?!